Wednesday, August 26, 2026

For the season when infertility makes every question feel urgent before God.

Isaac was forty years old when he took Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel the Syrian of Paddan Aram, the sister of Laban the Syrian, to be his wife. Isaac entreated Yahweh for his wife, because she was barren. Yahweh was entreated by him, and Rebekah his wife conceived. The children struggled together within her. She said, “If it is like this, why do I live?” She went to inquire of Yahweh. Yahweh said to her, “Two nations are in your womb. Two peoples will be separated from your body. The one people will be stronger than the other people. The elder will serve the younger.”
Genesis 25:20–23

Rebekah's pregnancy is not presented as a smooth answer to barrenness. After Isaac's entreaty and Yahweh's response, the children struggle within her, and the gift itself becomes painful enough for her to ask, “If it is like this, why do I live?” Her distress is not polished into gratitude. It pushes her toward a doorway: she goes to inquire of Yahweh.

That movement matters. Isaac prays because his wife is barren; Rebekah prays because her conceived life is marked by conflict. The same household must bring both the empty womb and the troubled womb to the Lord. The text does not promise that inquiry will produce the explanation we want, or that knowledge will remove every ache. It does show a God who receives the question and gives a word about what He is doing beyond Rebekah's sight. I confess that I often treat my unanswered why as evidence that I have been forgotten, rather than as a question I may carry into God's presence. The question born in distress may still become an inquiry brought to the Lord.

That word does not make Rebekah's suffering imaginary, and it does not turn infertility into a coded guarantee of pregnancy. For Christians, access to God rests finally on Christ: at the cross, the sin that barred us from fellowship was judged; in the resurrection, Jesus lives to bring His people before the Father. So the barren believer, and the believer whose hoped-for answer has become another source of pain, is not abandoned. Christ's cross gives pardon, and Christ's risen intercession gives welcome for the next honest question.

The question born in distress may still become an inquiry brought to the Lord.
Prayer

Lord, when I ask, “If it is like this, why do I live?” keep me from hiding my distress; teach me to inquire of Yahweh through Jesus Christ. For the sake of His cross and resurrection, receive me when the children struggled together within her, and hold me in Your mercy when I cannot see what You are doing.