Thursday, September 17, 2026

For the season when infertility makes the body’s questions feel inescapable.

Isaac was forty years old when he took Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel the Syrian of Paddan Aram, the sister of Laban the Syrian, to be his wife. Isaac entreated Yahweh for his wife, because she was barren. Yahweh was entreated by him, and Rebekah his wife conceived. The children struggled together within her. She said, “If it is like this, why do I live?” She went to inquire of Yahweh. Yahweh said to her, “Two nations are in your womb. Two peoples will be separated from your body. The one people will be stronger than the other people. The elder will serve the younger.”
Genesis 25:20–23

There are days when infertility leaves the body feeling like a place of accusation, and when another person’s pregnancy or your own unanswered longing makes ordinary hours difficult to inhabit. Rebekah’s distress included a question about whether life could continue under such pressure. Scripture gives her anguish a place without calling her faithless or requiring her to sound composed before approaching the Lord.

The verse does not leave Rebekah alone with the struggle within her. She turns from the bewildering conflict in her body and goes to inquire of the Lord. A question carried to the Lord is not a failure of faith. Her movement is small but honest: she does not explain the pain away, and she does not pretend that confusion has become peace. She brings the question where it can be heard.

Jesus, who entered bodily life through the incarnation and carried human grief to the cross, does not reduce you to fertility, pregnancy, or an outcome. The Father calls you his own before your body can prove anything. Christ’s resurrection and present intercession give this distress a Redeemer who is neither embarrassed by your question nor hurried by it. The Lord’s answer to Rebekah was not a promise that every distressed body receives the explanation it seeks; it was a disclosure that her hidden struggle was known.

A question carried to the Lord is not a failure of faith.
Prayer

Lord Jesus, receive my distress without shame. Keep me from despair, and teach me to bring my questions to you. Hold me by your cross and intercede for me when I have no words. Amen.