For the soul that feels forsaken yet still turns toward God.
My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from helping me, and from the words of my groaning? My God, I cry in the daytime, but you don’t answer; in the night season, and am not silent. But you are holy, you who inhabit the praises of Israel. Our fathers trusted in you. They trusted, and you delivered them. They cried to you, and were delivered. They trusted in you, and were not disappointed.
When the psalmist feels forsaken, he does not throw the page away. He keeps writing the address: “My God.” The questions are stark—why, why so far, why no answer to groaning? Daytime and night season have both become places of silence. Yet the complaint is still directed toward God. Forsakenness has not become indifference; pain still turns its face toward the One who seems absent. I have sometimes treated unanswered prayer as permission to stop addressing God, but this psalm exposes that retreat as another form of surrender.
On the same page, the psalmist writes, “But you are holy.” He does not solve the silence by denying it, nor does he make his anguish the measure of God’s character. He remembers the fathers who trusted, cried, and were delivered. Their history does not erase his present distress, and their deliverance cannot be used as a quick explanation for his unanswered cry. It gives him a reason to keep the address open while the answer has not yet come. The tension remains: God is holy, the people have trusted, and the sufferer is still waiting without relief.
The cross gives a forsaken soul a crucified Savior to whom its cry can still be directed. Jesus entered the judgment our sin deserved, bearing the abandonment this psalm voices, so that those joined to him are not abandoned to condemnation. The cross does not call silence an answer; it gives suffering believers a place to bring their groaning and a Savior who has entered it. Their pain may remain painfully real, but Christ’s finished work means their address is received by grace, not secured by the strength of their trust.
The cross gives a forsaken soul a crucified Savior to whom its cry can still be directed.
My God, hear those who cry in the daytime and in the night season; meet the forsaken with mercy when you seem far from helping. You are holy, and Christ has borne forsakenness at the cross; teach us to trust your grace, so that we are not disappointed in you.
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